Sunday, December 30, 2007

A Celebration

On Nov. 13, 2007, the Centre for Christian Studies announced the names of two recipients who will be named "Companions of the Centre" this coming spring. Only recently has Shelley given me permission to post her citation on our blog so, while she is napping following a trek out to church this morning (and without opportunity to change her mind), it is my joy to share with you the following:

The Centre for Christian Studies
2008 Companion of the Centre Co-awardees are

Shelley Davis Finson
Feminist, Adult Educator, CCS graduate and former Academic staff

and

Ken DeLisle
Diaconal Minister, Advocate for those on the margins



to be conferred at the 2008 Annual Service of Celebration
April 6, 2008, 3:00 pm CST
at St. Matthew’s Anglican Church, Winnipeg
and across the country via a telephone link up




Shelley Davis Finson

Shelley Finson was the prime mover of the Canadian Christian Feminist movement through her coordination of the Movement for Christian Feminism. She opened eyes, raised consciousness and called women to action. Although she was perceived as too radical by many in the institutional church, she served on the national United Church Task Force on Men and Women and through that work and her myriad of other influences and undertakings she profoundly shaped the United Church. Indeed she holds a place in the church and feminist halls of fame for all of North America. She supported women across Canada in their struggles against sexism and introduced them to feminist theologians around the world.

Shelley has also had a remarkable influence on theological education. She served on the CCS Academic staff from 1978 to 1985 as the Director of Field Education where she worked with both the students in the program and the many field supervisors who were then part of the program. She was said to have “put them through their paces”, developing local educators throughout parishes and congregations. She was active in the North American Association of Theological Field Educators. After leaving the Academic Staff of CCS she was Professor in Pastoral Theology at the Atlantic School of Theology. She continued in association with CCS through her years in Halifax in many ways. In 2002 she became a member of the CCS Program Committee, providing excellent leadership in the development of many policies and program developments, seeing through a major program review and revision. She also served on the national United Church Education for Church Leadership Coordinating Committee and several of its task groups, where she was an advocate for diaconal ministry and perspective, for CCS and for experiential and praxis education.

Shelley is a remarkable mentor for many, many people. She is a gifted facilitator, a wonderfully compassionate teacher, a critical and analytical thinker, a committed and articulate Christian. She has a clear and vital passion for a vision in which God’s fullness is known for all and she does not shy from her determination to work out of that passion. She does not mince words in the face of inequality and injustice. She is an advocate of the disempowered and a voice for the voiceless. She will speak truth to power, despite the discomfort of that action, and she does it with courage and above all with a genuine, deep and wonderful humour.

Shelley became a student at CCS in the fall of 1962 and graduated in 1964. She was commissioned by the United Church as a Deaconess in 1965. After completing her MDiv she was ordained.

Shelley has numerous degrees: Bachelor of Arts (B.A.), Masters of Religious Education (M.R.E.), Diploma in Christian Education Centre for Christian Studies, Master of Social Work, Doctor of Ministry (D.Min) and an Honorary Doctorate - United Theological College, McGill University. Shelley is widely published.

Shelley was born in England, south of London, spent three years in Jamaica and arrived in Canada in 1956 and made her home in Toronto. Later she moved to Halifax, where she has retired. She lives there with her partner, Diane Tingley.

Shelley has pancreatic cancer and is in palliative care. The presentation of her award is planned for April, 2008, but may need to be adjusted in response to her health.

Saturday, December 29, 2007

Caught her in the dishpan!


Obviously, my love is desperate for things to do on a snowy day!

Pulling up our blog-socks!

Recently, we had a tea with friends who reminded us that we haven't been diligent in updating our blog. That reminder has echoed a few times from others of you who've also indicated an interest in our "same ole, same ole" lives . Thanks for the encouragement! We will try to pull up our blog-socks in the New Year.

Before Christmas, we braved the Mall to get some outfits for Shelley. Over the while, with the weight loss, came the reality that nothing fits although, being off chemo the past two weeks, Shelley's weight has increased by at least 2lbs.

We had a very fine Christmas and Box Day with friends at their cottage in Malagash. Along with great food, conversation, and warmth from the heat of the cozy wood stove, we were treated to an incredible morning sunrise to add to the highlights! Thanks friends!

Prior to Christmas, two friends came by to take us out for a wonderful evening drive to view the Christmas lights. Although there were some extraordinarily beautiful lights, we were wondering if folk were cutting back on the number displayed this year perhaps for ecological reasons?

We have had some splendid lunches out – one at Brightwood Golf Club, another at Jane’s on the Commons as well as with friends in their homes. We have been thoroughly spoiled with Christmas goodies as well as delighted to be able to make some cookies to share with friends when they come by for tea.

Some big news is that Shelley's three siblings, Janette, Thomas, and William, arrive from Jamaica on January 4 and will be staying until January 8th. Sure hope they rustle up adequate winter clothes! Likely, they will stay at the Lord Nelson Hotel. We're really excited about seeing them and quite moved that they would make the trek here in the cold and snowy month of January.

This Monday (the 31st), Shelley has a CT Scan. She will get the results when she sees her oncologist on the 7th to begin a new cycle of chemo. At that time, we will have the discussion about whether or not to continue with chemo. Life has been so much better this past while without GB hanging around!

We have not sent Christmas cards this year nor given gifts, except to the grandchildren. We’ve left it to emails and this blog to wish you all the very best of the Season. We also want to extend our gratitude to you for all of the good wishes that came our way.

Once again, we are expecting another winter storm – more snow this month than all of last year. Hopefully, a January Chinook is on the way for the visit with my Jamaican family!

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Christmas Greetings

Christmas greetings friends!

As we wend our way through Christmas 2007, this year, we find the meaning of Christmas in the image of "birthing." Christmas, for us, represents birth! It reminds us that, for good or for ill, everyone gives birth; birth to ideas, relationships, feelings, and actions.

Christmas provokes! She demands the birth of all things good! When tempted to succumb to life's challenges, Christmas rattles our bones! We give thanks for her insistent return and call. She animates. She tells us again and again of individual and collective possibility.

This year, Christmas wraps herself in beauty and sadness, hope and anxiety. Amidst her entourage of caring ones, both family and friends, she brings the wonder (!) of "awe" and the wonder (?) of "how" we will wend our way. In all things, Christmas brings assurance. We welcome her and give thanks for her presence in our lives and world.

Wishing each of you a provocative Christmas; one that issues forth in a multitude of wonderful births!

With love, Diane and Shelley

Sunday, December 16, 2007

F.Y.I.

Here are more of your movie suggestions - with thanks!

Bringing Down the House; Spellbound; Word Play; Driving Lessons (U.K.); A Mighty Wind; For Your Consideration; Turtle Diary; Truly, Madly, Deeply; Fly Away Home; Mona Lisa Smile; Casablanca; Pursuit of Happiness; Avenue Montaigne; Dresser; 84 Charing Cross Road; Sarah, Plain and Tall; Millions; Waiting for Gruffman; Dear Frankie; Second Hand Lion; Milagro Beanfield War; A Prairie Companion - Meryl and Lily; Greenfingers; Keeping up with the Steins; Homecoming; Legally Blonde; Miss Potter; Kinky Boots; Company of Strangers; Chocolat.

Saturday, December 15, 2007

Christmas Ambience at the TinFins!



We've just returned from a two day retreat at White Point Lodge. As always, it was enjoyable to be away, but it is was also nice to return home.

The days following chemo this week were a little kinder. The extra anti-nausea I.V drugs seemed to have made a difference. I still deal with the occasional nausea, have times when I lose my supper, and have an ongoing struggle with lack of appetite. Hopefully, these things will lessen over the next three weeks.

Enroute home, we stalked up in preparation for an impending snow storm - lots of chips/treats and five of your recommended movies! Looking forward to being cozy and warm and entertained!

Friday, December 7, 2007

Movie Recommendations

Thank you for your responses! Just in case you have your own video nights, here are your suggestions:

The Holiday; Fifty First Dates; Amazing Mrs. Pritchard; Enchanted; Ratatoui; Polar Express; Waking Ned Divine; Modern Times; The Gold Rush; The Grand Seduction; The Producers (Mostrel); Nine to Five; To Be or Not to Be (Jack Benny Version); Monsoon Wedding; The Russians are Coming; The Full Monty; The Man in the White Suit; Big Night; Keeping Mum; Saving Grace; Central Station; Everything is Illuminated; Enchanted April; Big Night; Brothers and Sisters; Company of Strangers; Best in Show; Calendar Girls.

We are looking forward to checking some of them out!

This day hasn't been one of the top 10 which is somewhat disappointing as Fridays are usually better.

A bright spot in the day, however, was a visit from long-time friend from NFLD, Carolyn Emerson.

Thursday, December 6, 2007

Any Recommendations?

In the days following chemo, we often rent movies. We are always on the look-out for recommendations for light, uplifting, or comedy movies and we just got the brainwave to ask for your suggestions. If you have any, we would love to hear from you at Shelley's email address: sfinson@eastlink.ca .

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Improvement

It's mid week and I'm beginning to feel much better. During the latter half of the week, I now venture out to do the odd errand with Diane, look forward to those occasions when I have lunch or tea out with friends or they come here for lunch or tea with us. Being able to maintain connection and community in this way is a real joy for me.

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

Stormy Weather All Around

Shelley had two dates yesterday; in the morning she met with GB; in the evening and through the night she met with the toilet. We are always grateful when Tuesday arrives in hopes that her dates will include dry toast, weak tea, maybe some broth and a soft boiled egg. The weather in Halifax provided suitable accompaniment for her dates - snow, rain, thunderstorm in the early morning hours, and sufficient gale force winds to blow curb side garbage bags across the crescent and down one bird-feeder. However, after a long night, the white blanket that now covers this part of creation with its stunning beauty does lighten our spirits.